A Christmas Truth

December 22nd, 2010
By Billy Kaplan, LCSW HCC President & Clinical Director
Santa Claus is coming to town!
So many people believed that as children, and many of us make-believe it with our children. I didn't believe it as a child because I celebrated a different holiday that brought light to dark winter nights - Hanukah. So when my eldest daughter was in grade school and she asked me, "Daddy, do you believe in Santa Claus?" I wasn't surprised she asked her Jewish parent. I imagined she didn't want to hurt her mother's feelings. But I wasn't prepared for the question. I knew I couldn't lie to her - at her age and the earnestness with which she asked the question, I thought the lie would have been disappointing. I think she wanted me to show her respect. I think she was saying, "Daddy, please, treat me like a big kid. I'm really ready." So I told her what I believed: "If you're asking me if I believe a jolly fat man comes down the chimney and brings presents, I think you already know if that is true or not. But if you're asking me if I believe that the spirit of Santa makes great magic happen which brings many wonderful gifts, then I can say with all my heart that I believe in Santa. And those of us who understand that spirit get the joy of sharing it with others."